Where Danny DeVito Stands With Ex Rhea Perlman 9 Years After Breakup
Where Danny DeVito Stands With Ex Rhea Perlman 9 Years After Breakup
Paige Catton Wed, July 29, 2026 at 11:21 PM UTC
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Plus, DeVito, 81, and Perlman, 78, have spent more time in each other’s lives than apart. After all, the pair first met in 1971 after Perlman went to watch a friend in an off-Broadway show, which featured DeVito, before the trio all went out together afterward.
Looking back, DeVito shared that he and Perlman, who wed in 1982, “hit it off.”
“We liked off-Broadway stuff,” he recalled. “We went to movies all the time. We made little movies together—short films.”
Indeed, during their marriage, the duo teamed up for multiple projects together, including their notable joint appearances in Matilda and Taxi.
“We had a lot in common, and we fell in love,” DeVito continued. “A nice Jewish girl from Brooklyn and an Italian from New Jersey: I cooked and she ate.”
Plus, DeVito, 81, and Perlman, 78, have spent more time in each other’s lives than apart. After all, the pair first met in 1971 after Perlman went to watch a friend in an off-Broadway show, which featured DeVito, before the trio all went out together afterward.
Looking back, DeVito shared that he and Perlman, who wed in 1982, “hit it off.”
“We liked off-Broadway stuff,” he recalled. “We went to movies all the time. We made little movies together—short films.”
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Indeed, during their marriage, the duo teamed up for multiple projects together, including their notable joint appearances in Matilda and Taxi.
“We had a lot in common, and we fell in love,” DeVito continued. “A nice Jewish girl from Brooklyn and an Italian from New Jersey: I cooked and she ate.”
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And while DeVito and Perlman, who first separated in 2012 before parting ways for good in 2017, remain “very good friends,” their second separation didn’t come without its challenges.
“It was very difficult at first,” the Barbie actress admitted in a May 2023 appearance on Julia Louis-Dreyfus’ Wiser Than Me podcast. “It took time for us to come to this, somehow, pretty decent understanding and relationship with each other."
Yet, Perlman emphasized, family remains the top priority in their lives.
"We see each other a lot," she shared. "And our family is still the most important thing to both of us."
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